On My Life and Happenings ............ As it is !

"On My Life and Happenings ............ As it is !!!"

Saturday 13 February 2010

Being Single Rocks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This post is from my personal experience !! 


I never Fell in love with any girl so far and have plans for it in the near future too ! Lols !!
yeah but in way back in 12th grade i was in love but not true something like infatuation i should say in clear, just went behind like crazy guy searching for her home and hunting her phone number and lots more !! at the end what happened that my close buddies know it, but the real fact is that i lost my concentration in studies and eventually made a major set back in my career scored low in 12th !!!!!!!!!!!
When i joined my college i made a resolution look Joe, what ever happened is happened never believe in Love in college life like Cinema its not true at all !!!!! its not practical in Real life only in reel life its true ! rofl !!
From that time till now am Single Single and Single ! well i am happy, secured and also Virgin lols lols !
After that incident i never went behind any gal for Love or had that feelings too, even to say more none of the girls tried me too he he he lols !!! I am always happy and will proudly will say i am a Single !!
Not only that even my close buddies and known ones dint join up though they were in deep love during college days, later separated off due to some reasons and later knowing that it will not suit their family and they are suffering now ! Do you know what happens in some extreme cases the trust of either of the lover shatters like a broken glass which  can never joined again even if its tried 100 times coz that person would have been thinking all way through that his/her lover will never cheat him/her !!!!!!!!! (this is what happened to my close one and the person is suffering now ). In another incident a friend of mine loved a girl, later just cos their parents had seen alliance left that guy. And there are few more guys who are Mad in one side love, may be it will work out in Kutty movie but in real life never, those two guys are still thinking of their girl still staying filmy dialogues "i miss you" "mannipaya" "i still love you " etc etc  , by staying up in overseas and wasting their time and energy. I dont know what all of them achieved it by doing Love ?? as said my some comedian "Love is like a Murruku, will be nice while eating after that its nothing just melts away, it never stays for Long". This is 100% true !!!!!!!!!
Love is something make you mad and crazy, it never keeps you calm and allows you too be stable, you try to always impress your loved ones, spend for them, exchange gifts, take them out for movies, make false promises, and eventually he/she departs in some part of life just in a fraction of second and at last keeps you in stress, by that you realize that i have lost many things , it will be too late.

My concept of Love: Its just a rare feeling in which only few succeed, but most of them fails. In other words, Love pains a lot if its broken, Cheat our parents, Move away from our frnds !!!! do we need this tell me ??


Causes of Love : Loose our parents trust, move away from our friends and at last be Single by growing beard and keeping yourself alone. and sometimes breaking the trust of either of the lover in extreme cases.


Advantages of Being Single : 

  • Parents trust not broken.
  • Friends never depart away.
  • Freedom to do anything. 
  • No need to recharge or spend for your lovers lols
  • 24*7 can sight Chicks just for fun !!!!!
  • and more important BE HAPPY FOR EVER !!
I am not against Love, i am telling, before falling in Love think about your future, will they be united for ever? Will their parents will accept their love ?? etc etc. or you should have the guts to stand before the society by leaving all your trusted ones behind !
But i want to add few more lines i am not against Love, there is True lovers and Love too in my circle who have got united in their life and living happily. They really shined well in their life because they loved each other and understood each other, only thing percentage of success of Love is Less in countries like India !!
Anyways in some stage of Life everyone are going to get united with their Life partners why shouldnt we Love them later and give them their full love , instead of giving our love to some girl, leaving him / her behind and showing some fake love or half love to the real one !!!!!!!!!!!

Anyways
Happy V-Day for all the true lovers, may your love blossom for ever and keep you united for ever in Life !!!!!!!! Love but before falling into it think twice or thrice and then fall !!!!!

Hope i dint bore you guys who are reading this !!!!!! Thanks for reading this !!!!
Cheers !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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